Monday, 26 September 2016

"Bottle Feeding or Shit Tits"


Oh Hai, 

A story about breasts for you today. 

Saturday night was great. It was one of those nights that's supposed to be a glass of wine at your local that turns into an evening of laughs and memories and 'omg's remember when..'s'. So good. Except for one guy. I won't name and shame him because that'd be a low blow so let's just call him, 'Richard'. Shorten that to whatever you like. 

My friend Hazel came up from London and her and I were going to have a girlie drink and a natter. Nice. Then, I invited my guy friend and he had a couple of friends there already, one of them being 'Richard'. So, a group of 5. Me, Hazel, Guy Friend, his Matey and 'Richard'. Got it? Ok. 


(A really old snap of me holding a drink - I think Zoe took this at Fleur's house a million years ago! - because I didn't take any pictures whilst we were out. Also, my 'shit tits' are in this which I thought was appropriate.)

Wine flowed (room temperature rose Echo Falls for us classy ladies thank you) and spirits were high. Chit chat, 'bants' (I hate that word) and story telling. Lovely. Richard seemed friendly. Took an interest in Hazel's love of script writing, asked about Darcy because he too has a little girl from a relationship he is no longer in, joined in with general socialising. Fine. 

Onto the second bottle and the subject of religion crops up. I'm a Christian and happy to talk about that. I'm not happy to try and persuade or force anyone to feel that same way as me though. I'm also not going to 'prove God exists'. I can certainly talk about Him and debate it all but, crazily enough, my powers don't extend to summoning the Good Lord into the village pub on a Saturday night. Hazel, Guy Friend and Matey don't have a faith and were happy to go with the, 'You believe what you like and we'll believe what we like and we're all cool', vibe. Lovely. Richard though, no. He wasn't letting it go easily, not til we all knew he was a, in his words, 'militant Atheist'. A lot of placating from me, 'Look it's fine, I won't change my mind and I'm not trying to change yours' and then eventually a firm topic change from the others and we were back on track with light convo. Phewf. 

The night carried on in good fashion, all sat on stools around a high table and the general hub-bub of pub life carrying on around us. Later in the evening, Matey's wife joined us (loveliest lady ever, Hazel and I decided) and the subject of having babies came up (they aren't there yet). Wife said, 'as long as you help me through the night with bottle feeds!', in a jovial tone. Matey said, 'Nahhh, you'll be breastfeeding!', in a matching tone. 

All of this felt fine. It was their thing. Frankly, I don't care either way how that lady feeds her future babies, she can do whatever feels best to her. I know 'breast is best' and that there is a lot of evidence to support that, but if a lady chooses to bottle feed her baby, I think that's up to her. Basically, I support both. Darcy was breast fed for a week before we had some serious health issues and had a stay in hospital. After that, it was bottles for us. I think I would have liked to have breast fed for longer but nature had other ideas and I was actually quite relieved to now be able to share the load. 

So, back to last night. Wifey and Matey are having a quippy little chat and we're all sort of chuckling along. Then Richard, good old Richard, steps in with an absolute beauty, 'It's bottle feeding or shit tits!!!'. 

I think in his mind, he was doing Wifey a favour and trying to sway Matey to bottles so that he would have to help more in the night. I think he thought he was saying something good or useful. 

Rage bubbled inside me. I erupted. 'DID YOU JUST SAY 'BOTTLE FEEDING OR SHIT TITS'?? ARE MY TITS SHIT RICHARD???', I said that as I grabbed both my boobs and kind of aggressively shook them at him (#WineRegrets). He looked instantly awkward. 'What's wrong with you? Tits aren't there for your personal sexual pleasure! They're for babies!!! NO WONDER YOU'RE SINGLE!', bit (too) harsh past-tipsy-me, bit (too) harsh. Sorry Richard. 

The situation was placated by my guy friend and everyone calmed down and moved on. I apologised to Richard for being so shouty and tried to explain that I'm just really passionate about women's bodies. I'm sure if he had a blog, he'd be writing about me too haha. 

I've thought about it this morning. Should I have semi-yelled at a man I'd only met that night in a pub? Probably not. Do I still feel the same in the cold sobriety of the morning? Yes. Yes I actually bloody do. 

'It's bottle feeding or shit tits'. No. It's bottle feeding or breast feeding. It's feeding. It's loving your baby with all your heart and making choices that are best. If you can, breast feeding is so worth it. It's bonding and nourishing and doing what your body was beautifully and wonderfully designed for. Your body has just grown and delivered an infant and your breasts are (hopefully) full of milk to sustain it. 

(Found this on my FB from 2011. Darcy after a feed, note the bottles and my enormous drink and cereal since feeding meant you were basically trapped for 30 minutes at a time ha. I wish I'd had actual pictures of me breast and bottle feeding.)

If you are unable, for whatever reason, bottle feeding is available. When I bottle fed my tiny Darcy, I felt that bonding sensation. I cradled her in my arms, held the bottle to her lips and watched her drink. I was keeping her alive, watching her grow, cuddling her warm body, it was lovely. I'm sure her Dad felt the same when he fed her, a task we were able and happy to share. 

Feeding, however you do it, is lovely. We're clear on that. 

You know what's not lovely though? Having a man put his sexual preferences ahead of your maternal instinct, your dignity or your self worth and spouting off about it. 

Child birth and everything after is beautiful and worthwhile but also, for many women, quite distressing, upsetting and esteem knocking. Your tummy is wibbly, your vagina/stomach may well be in stitches, you've just gone through crazy pregnancy changes (more hair/less hair, stretch marks, swollen feet, varicose veins, weight gain, spotty skin, the list goes on) and all in all, physically, you're feeling exhausted. 

You need love and reassurance. You want to be told that you're incredible for bringing new life into the world, that you're glowing (yeah it's sweat and grease but a lie here and there doesn't hurt), that your partner has never loved you more, watching you care for that baby. 

You know what, your 'tits' might change. They might be bigger or smaller, they might hang lower, they might not feel as sensitive sexually. They might actually stay the exact same. Ultimately, whatever you do to them, they will still just be your breasts. A part of your body to be loved and cherished. 

They will not be, 'shit'. They just kept a human alive for goodness sake! 

My breasts are not meaty toys for a man to play with. Of course I like a sexual partner to enjoy them in the appropriate moments, but they don't exist for his soul pleasure. They exist for me, for my children. 

I'm disgusted that Richard felt that breast feeding equals 'shit tits' and I'm disgusted that he voiced his opinion so brashly. When I questioned him on it I said, 'Does the Mother of your little girl have shit tits??'. 'She bottle fed', was the reply. Lucky her I guess, lucky the man she once married didn't have the opportunity to make her feel like crap. 

If you are a lady reading who has breast fed or ever does, I salute you. It's hard!! It takes determination and strength and love. I also salute your tits, whatever shape or size or, lolz, 'shitness' they are, I think they're bloody fantastic. 

And, 'Richard', if you're reading this, my tits, despite their brief stint of supplying my baby with milk, are fucking fabulous

Toodlepip!

xx

Edit - 12 hours after original post.
Richard has messaged. He, like a lot of us in our lives, made a flippant remark after a few drinks. He fully supports whatever way a woman wants to feed her baby and fully supported his wife in her choices with their child. He's glad this post has sparked support and love for women and their bodies and has apologised for any offence caused.

Personally, I of course still stand by the sentiment and message of this post. However, there are now no bad feelings towards Richard and I'm glad he is with us in our love of bodies, babies and self worth. Richard, apology accepted, you're alright! x

This post is dedicated to my good friend Clare who exclusively breast fed her baby girl, Hope,  for 5 months, with just one breast (the other wasn't playing ball). It was rough but she did it, happily and lovingly. I hope she never meets a 'Richard'. 

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133 comments:

  1. I love this so bloody much! Especially the end bit! You go girl!

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  2. I'd like you to know I fist pumped after reading this. Well said Lou. <3

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  4. High five to fucking fabulous, life sustaining tits!

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  5. Brilliant post Louise! I breastfed for 2 weeks and it is hard work and felt guilty for stopping. Well done you for standing up to this man. He sounds a right 'Richard' xxxxx

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  6. Love this ! <3
    Women should be proud of their bodies , and if men had to go through childbirth/feeding we'd never hear the end of it ! Louise you're fab , stay true to yourself & ignore "Richards" lol xxx

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  7. I don't think you were too harsh at all. He definitely needed putting in his place. Even if he thought he was being funny, someone needed to show him that he wasn't!

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  8. I heart this so much. I breastfed my kid and loved it. It was about the only thing that went well after a rubbish pregnancy and birth. My boobs are a bit saggy but that's what push up bras are for. Literally couldn't care less.

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  9. You go girl! Loved this post xxx

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  10. This was great! I'm so glad you said something!

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  11. Oh Louise! I can just imagine you saying that to Richard!!! And good on you girl. I breast fed my beautiful baby girl for 2 months and it was a wonderful feeling, unfortunately I had to stop as it have with great pain that I could no longer take. I didn't want to bottle feed but seeing her dad have the same smile I had made it all worth it. I can't knock either of them they both have their perks. I'm thankful I haven't been in the shit tit situ although I have had to do the MY EYES ARE UP HERE NOT DOWN THERE routine too many times. Finally a massive congrats to Clare!

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  12. This post is amazing

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  13. Sarah &amp; Squirrel26 September 2016 at 09:53

    Thank you Lou, you beauty!
    I would have done the same, and im not naturally shouty. I tell you what i am though, ive been breastfeeding for 3 and a half years and my boobs are great. I'll tell you what else, my husband is nothing but supportive, grateful and loving of my body for all reasons, sustaining our child AND his attraction to me. "Suck on that" Richard.

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  14. Yes, Louise!!!! This was a fantastic story and I loved it

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  15. I absolutely love this. I am currently 21 weeks pregnant and am so looking forward to trying to breast feed. I don't believe either is better than the other but if I can breast feed I will if that means 'shit tits' then bring them on. I couldn't think of anything prouder than to know my 'shit tits' nourished and fed our daughter for the first few months of her life. What a 'Richard'.

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    1. I'm sure your shit tits will be more than enough for your soon to be baby! (That's meant to be in good humour!) all the well wishes to you and baby xx

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  16. This was exactly what I needed to read on a shitty Monday morning! YES LOUISE, thanks for being the true definition of girl power!!

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  17. Amen to that. People quickly forget what amazing things a women's body can do. Tits are fabulous for many reasons. Read this whilst breastfeeding!

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  18. Louise, this is why I Love you 😂 Good on you for saying that! Harsh as it might seem, he sure as hell won't be saying anything of the sort again 💜

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  19. Well done Louise, I breastfed both my beautiful children for over a year and my boobs all be it bigger then before the kids are definitely not shit, what a cheeky bastard!!!! He probably made this comment to the mother of his child which is why she bottle fed xxx

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  20. I'm proud of you, Louise. This man sounds like a right... Richard. Good for you for telling it like it is.

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  21. Love this! I breastfed my baby for 16 months and my fabulous tits are now small, droopy flaps of skin! I love them more than I did before because for me they symbolise keeping my baby alive and helping him grow. It makes me so angry that someone would think they were "shit tits" because of what they look like rather than focusing on the fact that they gave a human life!
    Thanks for this Louise! X

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  22. Preach!!!! Currently breastfeeding a seven month old and sometimes dislike my new breast and other times marvel at them. Thank you for standing up for women everywhere and I hope if I ever met a Richard I would have the courage to do the same xxx

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  23. Preach!!!! Currently breastfeeding a seven month old and sometimes dislike my new breast and other times marvel at them. Thank you for standing up for women everywhere and I hope if I ever met a Richard I would have the courage to do the same xxx

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  24. Absolutely love this. As a mum to be, this pisses me off. It's a woman's choice whether she wants to breast feed or bottle feed no one else's. I will be breast feeding my baby boy when he comes and if someone makes a comment, well he's not their baby so they don't get a say in how I feed him xx

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  25. Bloody brilliant!

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  26. Absolutely bloody brilliant post! Well said! I have to admit I really wasnt a fan of my boobs after 8 weeks of breastfeeding but I'm so happy I could keep my little boy alive and well. That's what they're for after all, anything else is a bonus!!

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  27. This was such a great post! loved reading every bit of it

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  28. Writing this comment as I nurse my 5 week old newborn at 6am, after a long night of, you guessed it, lots of nursing. This is literally the best post. Surprisingly, the thing I am most self conscious about after birth isn't my tummy, thighs, or nether regions. It's my boobs. So thank you, Louise, for giving me a stern talking to and convincing me my tits are not shit! :)

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  29. Writing this comment as I nurse my 5 week old newborn at 6am, after a long night of, you guessed it, lots of nursing. This is literally the best post. Surprisingly, the thing I am most self conscious about after birth isn't my tummy, thighs, or nether regions. It's my boobs. So thank you, Louise, for giving me a stern talking to and convincing me my tits are not shit! :)

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  30. This is my favourite post of yours so far!

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  31. I have and still am breastfeeding my little baby-boy at the moment - and intend to continue until he is about 1 1/2 years old. Until now I have only experienced positive or neutral reactions to me doing so -- which frankly I feel should be the norm. Everybody is entitled to her/his own opinion -- but if you got nothing nice to say, then just don't say anything at all. But comments like Richard's that openly judge, discriminate against and therefore - I feel - are stupid, narcissistic, b***sh*t ---- are really enraging. I think in this situation you were more than right to voice your opinion - even if you shook your boobs in his face (he really didn't deserve that kind of pleasure...) and semi-yelled. Anything else probably wouldn't have had enough effect on this self-centered kind of person. You go Louise! Love your Blog and Videos, I have been watching them from the beginning on. Very happy and curious about you allowing your "Online Persona" to mature !

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  32. I love you! I'm a 2nd year student midwife and agree with absolutely everything you have so wonderfully and truthfully written. Ditch the Richards!! Xxx

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  33. Louise, I strictly breastfed both of my children for a year and i bloody love this post!@ MY husband loves my "shit" tits more than my tits before! Thank you for being such a positive and brash woman, we love you!

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  34. YES! If 'Richard' knew anything at all he'd know that pregnancy affects your breasts not breastfeeding! Currently breastfeeding my 8 month old with no signs of stopping anytime soon. It's been an honour to nourish her and sustain her with my own body how it was intended and I dread the day that we stop. Thankyou for standing up for your fellow mothers, love that! ��Xx

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  35. I fed two children, one for 7 months and one for 13 months and have to say my tits are great even though I am now 65 years old. Did no damage whatsoever and can honestly say I have seen young women with far less natural support then mine (38G). "Shit Tits", this guy knows nothing.

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  36. Well said Louise and what a 'dick' Richard is. I have breastfed all 3 of my babies. I admit I really struggled at times. I am a H cup which made feeding hardworking and I was always worried I would suffocate my baby but was assured by a breast feeding consultant this wouldn't happen. My second child and first son really enjoyed his milk and as I fed on demand I felt like I constantly had my tits hanging out!! I had severe mastitis but persevered mainly through stubbornness but I continued until I was forced to stop when I was 6 weeks pregnant with my 2nd son and hospitalised with hyperemesis. I was severely dehydrated and everything I had was going into making milk putting me and the pregnancy at risk. When I look back I feel so proud of what I achieved. It was bloody hard work but so worth it. I'm not happy with my body but that is due to losing all my confidence as my husband has spent years making fun of me. I am trying hard to get him to leave since I have woken up to the fact that I am a victim of domestic abuse.

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  37. This is the best, I can't believe some people can be so incredibly narrow minded, especially as bringing life into this world is one of the most magical and special things you could possibly do. I know a lot of women go through times of feeling low and lacking self esteem and there has to be much more support for each other and reminders of how amazing our bodies are. F*ck people like that! Yes all over our tits are fabulous, lactating or not! Immy x

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  38. I just love this! Yes you were absolutely right to shout at him! What a 'Richard'!

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  39. I've been grappling with the issues of self love for years. Issues such as anorexia and such things been on and off issues for me. Thankfully, I'm currently in an awesome place, supported by an awesome man who really does love me regardless of how I look which is something joyous and amazing. However, I've always had a little bit of fear about how much pregnancy and the aftermath can change your body. I'm desperately keen to be a mama (in the right time!) but I've had a niggling worry about 'shit tits'. This has helped put that to rest because damn, yeah my boobs are for my future babies! And I have enough faith in myself to believe that I'll pick (or may have already picked) the kind of husband who'll be wholly loving and supportive in that. Big up Louise, I love the new you! x

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  40. I love this post! My mum tried to breastfeed but it just wasn't a viable option for her, me or any of my siblings. I don't think anyone should be shouted at for choosing either to breastfeed or bottle feed. Breasts are for babies, first and foremost. Richard, dude. Not cool.

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  41. I think this is my favourite post of yours that I've ever read! If we don't speak out against horrible opinions like this, how are people who spout them ever going to learn? I think I would have to have said something too!

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  42. Damn,he sounded like a first class douche...
    You did the right thing in my opinion. How can you change unwanted behavior if you don't address the unwanted behavior?

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  43. Well said! Both here and in the pub :) I tried to breast feed my first daughter but my boobs as you most eloquently put it weren't playing ball, and I bottle fed from about 3 weeks. On my youngest I breast fed with no problems at all. I bonded equally with both my girls, and my tits were shit before I had kids, in fact they're better now than they were before. What a poopy head 'Richard' is, it's a shame that it's probably a view lots of men have. We need to speak out about this ignorance, and bloody well done for doing so!

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  44. Just when I thought I couldn't like you any more than I already do, you went and published this AMAZING blog post. Totally agree with everything you said. I'm a breastfeeding, single mama and proud! Some men are such idiots - you were right to nickname him d*ck...I mean Richard on here. Have I thought about what a future male I meet will think about my post baby body, stretch marks, extra wobbles and more? Sure. But what I also thought is if they don't like it, they're not good enough for me. I've done something magical, I've grown a human and they can either accept that or go on their own (not so) merry way. I love breastfeeding my son and haven't once thought 'oh I hope I'm not ruining my boobs for a future partner' because they're my boobs and my baby's food source. My mum actually said that breastfeeding improved her boobage (think I've just made that word up) so up yours Richard! I hope he actually reads your post Louise. Thanks for standing up for us mamas and women! xxx

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  45. Ironically, it's not breastfeeding at all that causes the girls to change as we age. It's the prostaglandins released during pregnancy & childbirth, regardless of how the child is fed.

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  46. Fab post all women should be celebrated because we are all amazing. This Richard sounds "charming" lets hope he does read your post Louise.

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  47. I applaud you! Like you, I wanted to breastfeed my baby (now 8 months), but as he as 5 weeks premature he was incubated and tube fed for almost 3 weeks, and made it impossible for me to then get him to latch on. Lots of tears and sleepless nights (and 2 bouts of mastitis due to a poor latch and not being drained effectively), I switched to bottles. I didn't have any trouble establishing a bond with my son, and he's happy and healthy regardless of breast or bottle! Would I had rather I breast fed him? Everyday, and I still blame myself for it not working properly. However, each individual woman knows her body and baby the best, and is capable of making the best decision for themselves. I think the age old adage works here; no uterus, no opinion!!
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    1. Well said Louise! Personally I think you weren't too harsh because he had no right to be saying that at all!

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  48. YES Louise! The change in your blog and on youtube isn't only a good change for you but also for us women. We need to read and talk about the stuff that is thrown our way, that we have to go through every day. This kidn of posts and talks will not only educate and spread awareness to women but also men.

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  49. This is bloody amazing Louise!! You are such an amazing woman and if you feel a bit bad for shouting at him, oh well!! He was so rude and ignorant. I hope when I have a child that I never encounter a 'Richard' too. X

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  50. Amazing post ���� but it's sole pleasure not soul lol

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  51. You are incredible Louise. And your storytelling skills are so fab, I adore reading your posts :) This is such an amazing message that needs to be spread <3 x

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  52. Bloody brilliant! I don't think you were too harsh, I'd say you were spot on - I'd have had much the same reaction about both the religion and the breast-feeding. The guy sounds like an utter nitwit! x

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  53. This is a very appropriate rant and I love you for not shying away from the topic to keep other people comfortable. Way to go Louise!

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  54. As mother of two who never breastfed i would just like to add that i still have 'shit tits' just from being pregnant! do i care, no! does my husband care, no! Its nothing a push up bra cant fix! so 'Richard' lucky for you that you dropped on with a wife who still had great tits after kids, cos i can assure you there aint many of them, breastfeeders or not! Good on you Louise for giving him an earful x

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  55. Recently there has been a case in Poland where restaurant threw out a client because she was breastfeeding inside, which they deemed to be "inappropriate" in public spaces. This is another thing that should be talked about: breastfeeding is completely natural and, as you said, healthy for the baby. Women's bodies should not be sexualised to the extent where we can't feed our babies without being accused of being... Shitty?

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  56. I'm really proud of you Louise for voicing your opinion to him instead of keeping it to yourself! You inspire me to stand up for what I believe in and feel strongly about, thank you xx

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  57. Bottle or breast? Fed is beast.

    I breastfed for 3 months, then it got too much & so i decided to switch to bottle to share the work load. (Not that it worked out that way) now my 'shit tits' touch my knees & I couldn't be prouder. Thankfully my partner loves me for who I am & is grateful I was able to give our daughter the best for as long as I could. Stupid Richard.

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  58. This is brilliant! Breasts doing what they are designed for should not be shamed. Loved this post xx

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  59. I love this post so much (especially the last line which did make me chuckle!). Me and my husband are yet to have babies (we hope to one day!) and I'm not sure which I'd go for but I don't see how anyone thinks they have the right to comment on the choices anyone else wants to make for them and their child. I just feel sorry for the lady who is married to him if he is that narrow minded!x

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  60. a brave soul to write about this subject. I would have shyed away. Thanks for stepping up for yourself and all women

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  61. I LOVE how the new content is surfacing all the Mummas!! YESSS Louise fab post, and YESSSS Mum's!! High flipping 5!!! Much love, a sleep deprived Mum of a 3 month old. Xxx

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  62. I know there is a fat chance you'll see this comment but you're a huge inspiration to my blog Louise! I've only recently discovered Sprinkle of Glitter but I feel like I've known you much longer. You're an old soul. XOXO!

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  63. I am currently having to Exclusively Pump to feed my baby and while it's still breastmilk, it's fed in a bottle and therefore sometimes I get nasty remarks about bottle feeding my baby. I get really upset. Firstly because it's no one's business and Secondly because it was heartbreaking to not be able to nurse. Having to defend my difficult choice is the last thing I feel like doing. I applaud you for standing up for your beliefs. Motherhood is effin' hard enough without the constant judgement.

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    1. Firstly, well done for pumping, secondly BRAVO for exclusively pumping! Breastfeeding is hard, expressing and bottle feeding is like super badass hard mode! I am breastfeeding my daughter and after a really rough start and almost turning to full time formula i know how hard of a struggle it can be. We are good now but I'm back at work so she takes a bottle during the day. Sorry that you have experienced abuse for bottle feeding your baby. This is not on. Please remember it is the vocal minority doing this and they don't represent a majority view. Let's face it, the majority couldn't give a chuff how we feed our babies as long as they are happy, healthy and full. Thing is these normal people who are just happy to see a healthy and happy baby don't come shake your hand and congratulate you, they really should though! Well, not everyone as that would be time consuming and weird, but enough to outnumber the vocal few. Keep doing what you're doing!

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  64. Oh my god Louise, this made my Tuesday morning commute to work much more enjoyable! I partly just wanted to swing my bra around above my head- but seeing as it's only Tuesday, we can give that a miss! Thanks for being so inspiring! X

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  65. Louise you're the best! Absolutely agree with every single word you said. You're so correct - women's bodies are these awesome things which keeps little humans alive. Glad you got the message across to Richard, and that he now agrees with you on this one. So much respect for you.
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  66. Loved good post so much! Literally just read it in the dark while holding my precious 15 month old daughter to my breasts feeding her. It's my favorite time of the day. I get to sit down and have her snuggle into me (finally without her wriggling out of my arms) and know that I am giving her exactly what she needs to grow strong. Did you know that when your bub is ill (like mine is now - just a cold) your milk adapts slightly to be able to help fight off the illness. As mother and baby are exposed to bacteria and viruses, milk includes antibodies specific to those antigens.
    I must have the shittest tits as my little one is 15.5 months and I'm still going strong and don't plan on stopping till she/we are ready. You go girl...X

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  67. Hurrah!I breastfed our boy for 6 weeks, until I was forced to stop because of some digestive issues he had. I loved every minute of it but was also relieved when his Daddy could share the 'shifts'. Baby no2 is on the way and I will definitely be breastfeeding again if all goes well. My tits are also fucking fabulous ;) xxx

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  68. Just found this post on Twitter and absolutely love it! I can't believe that comment. Makes me quite happy to be single tbh! I'm still breastfeeding my two year old and perfectly happy with my decision. Love your response!

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  69. Love this post !!
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  70. Well done Louise, however, from what you've described I think he was perhaps trying to encourage his bootle-feeding friend and helping her along. breast feeding in no way results in bad boobs though, it makes them bigger so it has the opposite effect entirely (totally agree). But with the influence of alcohol on both parties and his positive motive of encouraging a breast-feeder I think the situation was responded to too aggressively and yes, he was wrong but it shouldn't have developed into a bit of a rage. However, alcohol has those effects and I think we can all do things that are a bit 'iffy' when under the influence xxx

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  71. I love this, made my morning honestly. Best bit has to be, 'ARE MY TITS SHIT RICHARD???' XD

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  72. Love this blog post. Im not a mother and cant relate but what youre saying is very true... men should remember that boobs arent there for them.. theyre for our babies! I have to say though that it is unfair to be mad at Richard, i dont think he meant offense by it.. sounds like he was drunk and trying to be funny... he probably didnt think about what he was saying! X

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  73. I'm really enjoying this more grown up version of your blog, I wasn't a 'Sprinklerino' at all but I'm definitely a Louise fan!

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  74. This is hands down the best blog post I have ever read! xx

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  75. Looooove this Louise!
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  76. YES LOUISE! I am loving these new blog posts. I'm glad you voiced your opinions on breast feeding in general. It's the most natural thing and one day I hope that I'm able to give my children the love and nutrients that come from breastfeeding.

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  77. (2 of 2) You have a significant following - you have a responsibility, NO a social feckin duty to tell the truth. I see in previous posts you write about being the victim of bullying… From where I’m standing this looks like bullying, thinly disguised as girl-power – only this time you are the bully. I can only presume that this post is actually about you & your own body hang-ups, & not my lovely, sensitive friend at all. I’m presuming my comment will be deleted - but if only a handful of people see it & it gives them reason to question the veracity of future poison you chose to vomit-up at the expense of someone else’s well-being, then good. Or maybe you will take 5 minutes from your day to reflect on the effect this has had on him, & next time, it will make you stop & question whether to publicly & unjustly run someone down on public social media before you ACTUALLY do it… Perhaps you’ll take this post down & apologise to the guy in question next time you see him (because your patronising & half-ars*d edit to the original article doesn’t cut it). Richard has no idea I have done this btw, & I have chosen to do it anonymously to spare him further upset.

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  78. The first of my comments were deleted :) Shame 'Richard' doesn't have the same level of control over what's written about him

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  79. Oh how I admire you. You're fabulous. Don't let the trolls get you down. :)

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  80. I'm not a troll. This guy is a personal friend of mine, he didn't say what she's saying he did and this post has hurt him deeply. Louise is a fabricator who has used someone for the sake of a (good?) blog article and posted the content in such a way it is barely even anonymous. She is nothing more than a bully

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  82. Absolutely loved this post! You go girl!!

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  83. I thing what you did was absolutely amazing.Women get too often negative criticism about their bodies by men like Richard. Its our duty to defend other women and ourselves too.Good job Louise!!!

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  84. I only managed to breast feed my son for a week as he became dehydrated and I had no choice but to bottle feed him. I don't regret going down that road, because as you have said, you are feeding your child which ever way you choose to do it and THAT is the most important thing. Shit tits or no shit tits, your child(ren) is more important.

    Well said, Louise! Well said.

    Love
    Natalie xx
    From Misslawrence.co.uk

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  85. Ok so I've never even had a baby and I think this is one of the best blog posts on the topic! I salute you for taking on this Richard guy. I would've done exactly the same, tipsy or not. Mother or not. What you're saying is so true and important for people to understand. Ironically, I wish more people had the balls to speak out about this as you have. Just like your tits, I think your new content is fucking fabulous!


    Lots of Love

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  86. I really like this post. All for women being proud in their bodies and something I aspire to do and try to instil in myself - hope Richard wasn't too offended. Know the wine was flowing but I feel like you kind of skirted his atheism (which he was obviously passionate about) but allowed yourself to rant - not sure if this is just lost in the telling though. That said, I liked Richard much more by the end of the post.

    http://lizziedailyblog.blogspot.co.uk/

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  87. Why'd you put that bit at the end? Obvious he doesn't support women; he just didn't want judgement for his poor remarks (and accompanying view of women and their value to men as sex objects only). Gross. He's not 'alright'. He's a complete dick.

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  88. JessPrettyFlowers1 October 2016 at 18:46

    I have only just read your blog for the first time tonight (I live in Australia so it's currently night here (early hours of the morn));your blog not only made me chuckle because your way of writing is like a friend telling the story but it really helped me as I have just finished breast feeding after 15 months and my chesticles (lol) do look different. I am still adjusting to how they look now that my milk has dried up. Feeling way better about my pretty helpful/life giving boobies after reading your blog, so thank you! God's design is pretty amazing. <3

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  89. Great great great post Louise, your writing of RL is beautiful I'm so chuffed that you can share these times with us <3

    Mel ★ www.meleaglestone.co.uk

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  90. Stupid Richard.
    It's not his business.
    It's a woman thing.
    He shouldn't say such a horrible things about breastfeeding women...

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  93. This is my favourite post of yours. My ex-boyfriend was a 'Richard', and tried to justify it by saying that it was what his female friends had told him in confidence i.e. that breastfeeding had 'ruined' them. He then wondered why I felt terribly anxious about ever having children with him! As you say, breasts are for children not men - and the males around us should be supportive of whatever we go through as mothers in order to provide for our kids, and not berate us for things out of our control!

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  95. Did Richard like his pseudonym? :')

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  110. Hey guys, get your ex back fast with the help of a real and genuine spell caster called Dr.Unity..
    I'm so excited my broken Marriage has been restored and my husband is back after a breakup, After 2 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to Dr Unity. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr Unity real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,
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    Jessica, 26 years, Texas, USA.

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  113. I was in a serious relationship for about 3 years.
    We had a split up in March due to his Ex making threats to his children about me being no good and not to be with me.
    he broke up with me. I pleaded (Mistake) then started the NC rule. After almost a month he contacted me via friends phone and asked me if I was mad. he told me he missed me and loved me.
    We got back together and that lasted almost 2 months.
    Now in early february a similar situation happened again, but with my children. he broke it off again. I did the pleading again with no response from her. I started NC again.
    Friends of mine tell me that he’ll be back again. Through a friend he told them that he loved me & missed me, but to have patience, trust and not to worry.
    so i go in search online if i can get any help to save my relationship with my bf, so luckily i found a web site saying getting your ex back, fix your marriage, and restored broken relationship. so i contacted and gave a try on http://happyspelltemple.webs.com/ he promise and gave me his word that with-in 2 days i will have my relationship restored with my bf which he did as he promise i must say now that me and my bf and living happily together again also we are about to get married now all thanks to Dr happy he is indeed a real spell caster plz if you need any help like my do not hesitate to contact him on happylovespell2@gmail.com or add him on whats-app +2348133873774

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  114. WOW!!!
    This is the most wonderful thing i have ever experience and i need to share this great testimony.
    About how i get my ex back after a breakup.
    I never believed it, because i never heard nor learn anything about it before.
    Hey guys my wife and I have been married for 15 years. For over five years I have been dealing with jealousy issues because of flirting and her having emotional type affairs with other men. I felt like my masculinity was in question and if I said the way she was acting bothered me, it seemed to make matters worse or I was accused of being controling. During this period I did state I wanted a divorce if the behavior was not going to end: texting men a night, leaving for the weekend without letting me know where she was going or not responding to messages. We do have a son and basically it's been him and I for the last year on the weekends. She disconnected completely from being a good wife and mother. In April she said she wanted a separation and I said no we need to get into marriage counseling. We did try that, but she was not very responsive and didn't give any effort. Afterward she was adamant about separation and divorce. I continued to say no and that we needed to save our family. She presented a separation agreement and I had to hire a lawyer. Because of the above behavior my lawyer suggested a private investigator. The investigator discovered my wife was having an affair with a close friend of the family who also is married with children. We know the extended families. I feel like I should tell this man's wife about what happened. This adultery has devastated me emotionally, I feel betrayed and I'm physically drained. I know my wife is passionate in terms of her sexuality, and I can't get the thought of them out of my head. It makes me question my own manhood, and I feel very inferior or that he must be a better lover or what ever. The problem is my wife pursued him. She would go to him and she lured him into this adultery. I felt this was coming for some time and could not stop it. She was not only lying to me but also to our son about what she was doing and where she was going. My family is important, my son loves her and as crazy as it sounds so do I. Can you respond with a course of action on how to proceed? I was still have a very huge place in my heart for her. so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my wife came to me and apologized for the wrongs she did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I, my son and my wife are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed. as it is a place to resolve marriage/relationship issues, do you want to be sure if your spouse is being faithful to you or Do you want your Ex to come back to you Contact.: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com or call/Whats-app: +2348160153829 save your crumbling home and change of grades its 100% safe. I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.
    David L. Ollis, 43yrs, UK

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  115. I think we should be sensitive about the things we read online every day, some are true while some are false. I am sharing this cos I was deceived initially by some fake spell casters who goes around posting some negative reviews about good and genuine casters. They condemn the real ones and secretly provide a referential email to their victims where they can be scammed. It happened to me twice before I became observant.
    I fell to their trap the first time I needed help getting my Husband back, I was about contacting Dr. Wakina for help before seeing a strange review that said negative things about him which got me discouraged and made me contact the alternative email they provided, and I was scammed. I tried the second guy because of my desperation, but he did the same thing and stopped replying my emails. This situation caused me to become so curious to really know the good and fake caster between Dr. Wakina and them.
    There was a huge difference between them, Dr. Wakina is a master filled with wisdom and experience, he gave the accurate reading of my life, even one of my deepest secret. Dr. Wakina restored my marriage like a Boss he is at the exact date, time and location. His work was so magical.
    After the work, I understood why people are so jealous and try to be him. Like I said earlier, there is a huge difference between Dr. Wakina and others, it was confirmed after the spell he did on my Husband. So be careful while searching for a real spell caster. Here is Dr. Wakina contact email: dr.wakinalovetemple@gmail.com

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  117. Hey guys, I'm so excited of getting my husband back after he left me and our 3 kids for another woman.
    After 2 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to Dr Unity. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr Unity real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,his website:http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com . Jessica, 26 years, Texas, USA.

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  118. Hi,
    I really appreciate your inputs on my situation Dr happy and what could I have done with-out you. Thank you in advance.
    I was in a relationship with this guy for the past 1 and a half year.. We became close real fast and were very serious about each other… he’s German and was in the country for his internship.. he left after first 6 months and came back after a couple of months.. he said that he had come down for me.. WE started living – in.. We discussed faMILY, KIDS, future, moving to EU together.. everything was going good until of last August when I started to get jealous about his moves, I got controlling and things started to get worse.. we spoke about it a lot of times where he expressed how he felt but I was not able to understand why I was doing that.. During our discussion I would always say I did .. This February he called it off and since then I have been a mess.. I gave it a lot of thought and realised my mistakes and why I was doing it.. I tried talking to him .. begged him.. pleaded him .. but he says that he has lost all his feelings for me and would never get back to me..I was in my knees praying looking for help, them i fine a comment online how a spell caster help to restored relationship get ex lover back, ” so i decided to give a try coz i love my boyfriend so much. so i contacted Dr happy http://happyspelltemple.webs.com/ tell him all my problem and he gave me 100%guarantee that i will have my boyfriend back after the spell so i was gifted and lucky to have contacted him i did every thing he ask of me and to my greatest surprise a day after the spell my boyfriend call me and apology for what he did to me and ask for my forgiveness to come back again for me, we both are happily living together again plz Contact him urgently via.........
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    or add him on whats-app +2348133873774
    Junia Noel from USA

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  119. Hey guys, I'm so excited of getting my husband back after he left me and our 3 kids for another woman.
    After 2 years of marriage, me and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me and moved to California to be with another woman. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, I was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Unity can help get ex back fast. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a (Love spell) for me. 28 hours later, my husband really called me and told me that he miss me and the kids so much, So Amazing!! So that was how he came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and he apologized for his mistake,and for the pain he caused me and the kids. Then from that day,our Marriage was now stronger than how it were before,All thanks to Dr Unity. he is so powerful and i decided to share my story on the internet that Dr Unity real and powerful spell caster who i will always pray to live long to help his children in the time of trouble, if you are here and you need your Ex back or your husband moved to another woman, do not cry anymore, contact this powerful spell caster now. Here’s his contact: Email him at: Unityspelltemple@gmail.com ,you can also call him or add him on Whats-app: +2348071622464 ,his website:http://unityspelltemple.yolasite.com . Jessica, 26 years, Texas, USA.

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  120. My name is Ashley Thomas and I base in USA…“My life is back!!! After almost a year of Broken Relationship, my girlfriend left me with a broken heart. I felt like my life was about to end i almost committed suicide,i was emotionally down for a very long time. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr Uzor, which i met online.On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet,I came across a lot of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back,Ex Husband Pregnancy,Cure Cancer,HIV AIDS,And other Sickness,some testified that he can cast a spell to stop Divorce and so on. i also come across one particular testimony,it was about a man called Luke John, he testified about how he brought back his Ex lover in less than 48hours, and at the end of his testimony he dropped Dr Uzor’s E-mail address , After reading all these,I decided to give it a try. I contacted him and explained my problem to him, and he assured me that i will get my girlfriend back in the next 48hours.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do,Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my girlfriend who didn’t call me for the past (11 Months),gave me a call in just 2 days, my girlfriend came back to me. We solved our issues, and we are even happier than before. Dr Uzor is really a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster to solve all your problems for you. Try anytime, he is the answer to your problems. Here’s his Email contact: ( uzorspelltemple@gmail.com) or visit his website//:www.uzorspelltemple.webs.com

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  122. I live in UK. My life is back!!! After 2 years of Broken marriage, my husband left me with two kids, I felt like ending it all, i almost committed suicide because he left us with nothing, i was emotionally down all this while. Thanks to a spell caster called Dr. Ogbefi of solution spell cast which i met on-line. On one faithful day, as I was browsing through the internet, I came across several of testimonies about this particular spell caster. Some people testified that he brought their Ex lover back, some testified that he restores womb,cure cancer,and other sickness, some testified that he can cast a spell to stop divorce and also spell to get a good paid job so on. He is amazing, i also come across one particular testimony, it was about a woman called Vera, she testified about how he brought back her Ex lover in less than 2 days, and at the end of her testimony she dropped his email solutionoflovespelltemple@hotmail.com. After reading all these, I decided to give it a try. I contacted him via email and explained my problem to him. In just 48 hours, my husband came back to me. We resolved our issues, and we are even happier than ever. Dr. Ogbefi you are a gifted man and i will not stop publishing him because he is a wonderful man. If you have a problem and you are looking for a real and genuine spell caster, Try him any time, he is the answer to your problems. you can contact him on solutionoflovespelltemple@hotmail.com, he is the best caster that can help you with your problems. And also Reach him on WhatsApp Number: +2349057915709 Thanks Dr Ogbefi solutionoflovespelltemple@hotmail.com

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